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1. RELATIONSHIPS

WHY DOESN’T IT ALWAYS WORK?

2. Is the vast portion of mental activity occurring outside of conscious awareness, including automatic information processing,

The Unconscious
Is the vast portion of mental activity occurring outside of conscious
awareness, including automatic information processing, memory, emotions,
intuition and urges.
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3. American Professor – psychoanalyst James Hollis   "We are chosen by our unconscious.”

American Professor – psychoanalyst James Hollis
"We are chosen by our unconscious.”
The unconscious script/personality forms by the age of 6-7 years old.
The main idea of our relationship scenario forms by the age of 3 years old
“I will fall in love with you, and I will act out all my childhood traumas
with you."
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4. The four primary attachment styles, which define how individuals relate to others in relationships.

The four primary attachment styles,
which define how individuals relate to others in
relationships.
Secure/reliable attachment
Anxious/preoccupied attachment
Dismissive/avoidant attachment
Disorganized attachment
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5. Secure/Reliable type of attachment

Good self-esteem
Comfortable with intimacy, independence and trust
Ready to discuss issues and resolve them in respectful way
Not afraid to be alone
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6. Anxious/pre-occupied type of attachment

Anxious/pre-occupied type of attachment
Low self-esteem
Big desire for intimacy
High relationship anxiety
Persistent fear of abandonment
Looking for reassurance and relying on partners for validation
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7. Dismissive/avoidant attachment

High premium on independence/freedom
Emotional distance in relationships
Fear of commitment and vulnerability
Avoids emotional connections
Expresses affection through practical, rather than emotional declaration
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8. Disorganized/fearful attachment

Disorganized/fearful attachment
Low self-esteem
Desire for intimacy coupled with an intense fear of it
Early childhood traumas
Push-pull relationship behavior
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9. The Karpman’s Drama Triangle 

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Start with Self -Awareness
Seek out Professional Support
Try to analyze your repetitive behavioral patterns
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